The path to recovery from addiction involves more than just hoping to become sober. This is especially true for veterans who may struggle with co-occurring mental health conditions. Remember, turning away from addictive substances is more than just a physical act. When you are working toward recovery, you’ll need to learn how to stay sober throughout the rest of your life as well. In order to do this, you will need emotional sobriety.
In this article, we go through the steps to finding emotional sobriety, explain why it is so important, and guide you toward recovery centers that help veterans like you to find—and maintain—emotional sobriety.
What Is Emotional Sobriety?
Emotional sobriety is a lifelong journey. Like normal sobriety, it’s about self-control. In emotional sobriety, you take stock of all your emotions without allowing any one to define your personality or actions. You can achieve emotional sobriety when you have the skills, support, and resources you need to maintain your recovery long after you leave a veteran addiction treatment facility. The reason that you need emotional sobriety, put simply, is because there is a direct connection between your mental health and your addiction. This means that you cannot successfully treat one without addressing the other.
In fact, veterans who have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or other mental health conditions are at a much greater risk for also developing a substance use disorder. Studies show that over 20 percent of veterans who have PTSD also experience the struggles of addiction to drugs or alcohol.
These statistics show that mental health distress makes it much more challenging to turn away from addictive substances. Veterans frequently turn to drugs or alcohol when they are feeling sad, anxious, or overwhelmed because they do not know how to healthily cope with these emotions. So, even if you take the substance away, veterans often would not know how to handle unexpected stressors.
This is where emotional sobriety becomes instrumental in helping veterans to maintain recovery. If veterans are equipped with the skills they need to manage or regulate these uncomfortable emotions, they will be able to address unexpected or unwelcomed feelings in a healthy, effective way.
Why Is Emotional Sobriety Important?
The reality is that we cannot always predict life stressors or unexpected events that could trigger unpleasant emotions. This past year, for example, shows just how little we are able to control, as the COVID-19 pandemic caused devastation around the world. As a result, the frequency of substance abuse as well as overdose deaths have increased significantly. Additionally, more and more people, veterans in particular, experienced symptoms of different mental health conditions like anxiety, depression, and even thoughts of suicide.
Though emotional sobriety cannot stop unexpected tragedies from occurring around the world, it can greatly change the way that you respond to life stressors. Your response no longer has to be to turn to drugs or alcohol to numb your pain. This, after all, is not a solution. But with emotional sobriety, you can move past uncomfortable situations to find long-term peace, health, and happiness.
How Do You Achieve Emotional Sobriety?
It’s important to know that emotional sobriety is not something that happens overnight. Emotional sobriety is actually something that you will continue to build and strengthen every single day.
Managing feelings in recovery is one of the greatest challenges in becoming and staying sober. Oftentimes, veterans become newly sober and angry at the same time. Not only does sobriety clear your head and could bring back painful memories, but sobriety also forces you to feel uncomfortable emotions rather than pushing them away.
It is very common to feel anger in early sobriety. This anger could be toward yourself for decisions you made before you entered treatment or this anger could be toward something bigger—something out of your control. You might even feel angry at the prospect of becoming sober. But remember that dealing with sobriety is a physical, emotional, and mental battle.
Your work with emotional sobriety begins the minute you choose to get addiction and mental health treatment. From there, you will work to strengthen your emotional sobriety through the support of mental health professionals and other veterans who truly understand what you are experiencing.
In your veteran-focused treatment program, you will work toward emotional sobriety with treatment services such as:
Furthermore, through therapies like cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), you will learn how to better regulate your emotions. You will practice breathing techniques, recognizing emotions, mindfulness, self-acceptance, how to approach crisis situations, and more.
You will also learn practical life skills with nutritional education as well as job readiness training to get you back into civilian life. You will then be able to put these new skills to use as you heal from your past and face your future after rehab.
Find Emotional Recovery Today
At Heroes’ Mile, a treatment facility made by and for veterans, we believe that you can find hope through emotional sobriety. Here, you will have access to all of the treatment options above and plenty more to heal from your struggles with addiction as well as any co-occurring mental health disorders. Most importantly, you will feel more confident once you graduate from your program because you won’t just have a sense of physical recovery—you will have found emotional recovery as well.
Are you or a loved one in need of help?